Great minds supported Phlogiston, that wasn't an insult.
If steam reaches and condenses on the handle you may see the condensation droplets. Cobalt chloride is a sensitive indicator for water.
Mix a bit of it with calcium chloride (ice melter) in solution and dip a piece of paper towel in it. Dry it until the pink turns to blue, then tie it around the handle.
A cold mirror also shows slight amounts of condensation well.
Steam feels particularly hot on flesh because of its large heat of condensation.
-jsw