You are obviously well qualified in your field. Your field very obviously is not in practical applications, at least not from what I have read. Well systems have been in use since before recorded history. Insisting that changing an industry standard that has stood the test of time is not 'practical application'. The '2psi below cut-in' is the standard and for very good reasons. One is that it minimizes pump cycle times, i.e., max water delivered between cycles. That at least is what I was taught. Since it works in practice I see no need to get a masters in theoretical physics or calculus.
There is fun in trying various things to see if something can be made to work better but there comes a point in development (well systems for example) where further tinkering is a dead end.
The guy has a problem with a pressure wave spike going over 60psi at start-up. He band-aided it. It is not now a problem and would never have been a problem if the switch had been at the tank to begin with. That is the simple cut and dried version. All your theoreticals isn't going to change it.
Harry K