No, you are not on your own - not by a long way.
I have all the threads you can imagine amongst my vehicles (my 1969 Norton uses cycle rate thread on the engine mounting bolts + BSF and BSW). I have lathes going back to 1930, and a 2004 Ducati.
I have a small metric tap and die set, and metric seemed a good way to go when I needed to make a throttle linkage recently (easy to get get bolts and nuts), and I selected some metric bolts from my collection and they are nothing like the ones in my tap & die set.
How many taps and dies do you need to have a comprehensive metric set ?? It seems like hundreds !! There is no point on standardising on an infinite number of variations !
One thing I do have is Whitworth's original proposal for standardising threads. A friend gave me bound copies of the "The Practical Mechanic and Engineers Magazine" from 1942 to 1945ish, and it has Whitworths proposal - and not many people may realise that he didn't calculate it on an engineering basis, he surveyed many engineering works making their own threads and then took an average. He also said that a finer thread would be better for steel (yes Whitworth was suggesting what came to be BSF).
I understand and can cut BSF and Whitworth (and cycle rate) - but BA and especially metric are still a mystery to me. Maybe there is a book somewhere that explains all of the variations on metric, but I can't even sort out the nuts and bolts I have - more and more are going in the unknown jar - and I think they are metric odd-sizes as they are mostly newish in appearance. I also have problems sorting Whitworth from UNC - they are all lumped together (yes I know its a sin - but I can't think of an easy way to separate them) !
The Victorians had it easy !!
Steve