Find weights for LQR

There is any good method / process that can help me in finding the (diagonal) weighting matrices Q and R for the LQR design?
I practice I need a method to find these weights automatically having goals such as: - minimum damping - maximum magnitude - closed loop pole location
Thanks in advance for any help.
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