Chances are it's not your wiring and there's something wrong with at the cable company or with their equipment. Here's a summary of the problems I've encountered in the last few years:
I had a cousin who had a DSL problem. Her ISP said it was her computer. I told her it wasn't and she probably had a bad modem. The problem went on for weeks while they were giving her the run around. Finally she called them and told them she was canceling her account. They came to her house and replaced the modem and everything was fine.
I have an ex-son-in-law who's been going round and round with his cable company for weeks because his television only worked good sometimes--mostly at night. Actually, he had the same problem several months before that and a serviceman had fixed it. Anyway they had him trying everything and changing cables and promising someone would come out, etc. When the serviceman finally arrived, he told him the problem was because he was using RG-59 instead of RG-62, but actually it turned out the signal coming into his apartment was too weak.
I used to have DSL and came home one day from my daughter's house after a huge thunderstorm--one of the worst ones I've ever seen. Fortunately, everything still worked because now days most equipment has built-in surge protection. Everything still worked, that is, except my DSL connection. Upon taking a close look at the modem, I noticed it lacked a "CE" mark and, therefore, probably didn't have good surge protection. My ISP had me jumping through hoops for 3 weeks talking to their service center in India. Finally, a guy came out and replaced the modem. By then, though, I was so damned mad I canceled the service and went with a fiber optic connection. I had to buy my own modem, but they gave me a recommended model number (a Wireless - B Linksys).
Everything worked fine for a couple of weeks until I decided to download some music from Napster. Then I would always get disconnected for some mysterious reason. I called my ISP and they told me to call Napster. I did and Napster told me to contact my ISP (again). After that my ISP ran some tests and said everything was fine, but of course it wasn't. Finally, on about my 4th call a guy asked me what kind of Modem I had and then told me I needed to switch to a Wireless - G Linksys. That solved the problem.
Anyway, good luck. I hope you get it fixed soon.