Don't let that intimidate you. Clear your head and study some properly ground tools, then emulate what you see. Understand what clearance is, and why you need it. Learn what rake is, and how much is appropriate. That way you can make intelligent decisions when a tool doesn't perform as expected. It takes a little work to get good at it, but it is worth any and all time you dedicate to it. For HSS, you'll almost always want positive rake except for machining brass, especially on your small lathe. Zero rake is a better choice in that situation. Get to understand chip breakers and how they work----they can make a mediocre tool into a fantastic tool.
Trust me-----you will *never* be comfortable running machine tools until you understand cutter theory. It really sets you free. I tend to grind in an unconventional manner, using no tool rest, with my grinder at chest height. It takes some getting used to, but once you're on to it, you'll never go back to a low grinder or one with a tool rest. It just gets in the way when you need to grind chip breakers and clever tools.
Harold