Hi, I've had the Soba rotary table for about a year and have found it very useful both with and without the dividing plates. Never yet used the tailstock though. Regarding the size, it depends on the work you will be doing and the size of your machine. The most useful accessory to make or buy is a morse taper fitting with your lathe headstock fitting so that you can move work directly from the lathe to the mill without rechucking.
Russell.