Try making a simple jig; cut two pieces of extruded foam to size. If the wings are offset, cut rhomboid shapes from the foam. If not offset, cut with right angles. Also, if the plane is really large, you might want to have a jig for each wing cell (bay).
Make the jigs a trifle shorter than the wing struts included in your kit, or the size of strut that is exposed outside its wing socket.
Place one jig under the right side, one under the left, and rubber band the upper wing in place. While doing this, don't cover up the spots where the struts will go. After you feel sure that the wing is placed correctly in all dimensions, place all the struts in position PRIOR to gluing. Struts should bend a bit, and ought to more or less snap into place. Attach your struts with a slow curing CA glue or whatever you like.
I prefer doing all the wing struts first, then doing the cabane struts second. Some people prefer the opposite. Just chose one or the other; simply working from one side to the other would have a better chance of introducing some wonkiness (technical term).
After the glue has cured, you can remove the rubber bands (usually better to cut them off) and then slip the foam jigs out. Done deal!
When doing small planes, I generally don't bother with these things, But the more struts there are, the more you need to use jigs.