But the big question is, did you win the fight?
Not to go off on a tangent (well, I guess we're going off on a tangent...), but one difference between the slaked lime sold for plastering and the fully hydrated lime often sold as "powdered limestone," "ground limestone," or "builder's lime" is that the magnesium oxide (and sometimes aluminum oxide), as well as the calcium oxide, has been full hydrated in the latter types. It's still waiting for some carbon before it's restored to limestone; much "ground limestone" really is just ground limestone, calcium carbonate.
It's amazing how complicated lime can be, as a building product. Don't ask how I know. It was a sad wall-restoration story.
Ed Huntress