Don't make it, buy it. What you want is a Kovar feedthrough. These have a piece of Kovar rod that passes through a piece of ceramic insulator, which also serves as the vacuum seal. The material of the port needs to be as
This is exactly why Kovar was developed. It matches the thermal expansion of glass and ceramic materials, and also wets the glass, providing a strong mechanical bond. it is what is used to make the connections through vacuum tubes. If this is a hobby project, you can salvage the base of an all-glass vacuum tube or CRT.
Jon