I have decided to not shortchange myself with a 3,500 lbs axle (for which I would need to buy brake parts, hubs etc and that would only give me a 2,000 lbs carrying capacity).
I called around, found a company in a neighboring state that is willing to sell me a 6,000 lbs drop axle, with electric brakes, hubs, and wheels, and would even ship to me to a nearby terminal. The total for axle, hubs, brakes, and 3,000 lbs rated wheels is $671, plus modest shipping. That would give me a trailer with 6,000 lbs GVWR.
That means approximately 4,500 lbs carrying capacity, provided that I have adequate frame.
I drew a picture of what the underside frame would look like. The frame would be made of 2x4s, the tonge would be A frame supported and made of 3x4. Note sure what metal thickness I need.
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