When it comes to the networks, the two main ones; XpressNet (Lenz) and LocoNet (Digitrax), my observations of interworking are:
XpressNet - Lenz, Roco, ZTC(?). Not many aftermarket boards.
LocoNet - Digitrax, Fleischmann, Uhlenbrock. Several aftermarket small makers, eg. CML electronics "control tower" for producing a layout mimic diagram. Fremo Fred DIY throttle.
There are probably loads more to add to the lists.
- Nigel