You've brought this subject up before, and I don't think you'll find anything with an accurately countersunk head at any home stores, if they exist at all.
I mentioned before that I firmly believe the deck/construction screws are far better fasteners as thay aren't brittle like many/most drywall screws. Brittle drywall screws tend to snap, and deck/construction screws are tough but don't appear to be thru hardened. I prefer the deck type with the notched tips, which enable them to cut as they penetrate, making them easier to drive (longer lasting battery life on cordless drill/drivers).. and generally less likely to strip out the drive recess before they're driven home.
You may need to stamp/press a recess in the (sheet?) metal parts so the screws stop flush or slightly below the surface, or use a stamped washer that will deform to the bugle-shaped underside of these types of screws (there's a dressy-looking washer type like a hollow half donut, but I can't recall what their name is). Of course if the material being mounted is thick enough, a counterbore will get the head below the surface. Mo money, but plastic plugs are available in a multitude of styles.. but then, you've got CNC, so, no problem.