I asked Payroll at work if they had an end date for the child support withholding order, they looked and found it was 12/9/2010, my youngest daughters 18th birthday. So, if they go off of that date I'm about $6k ahead on support, was already ~1k ahead before then.
But, just to let you know how the system works...
Mother drives recent model sport car to drive ~3 miles to work. Daughters bought old junkers from "buy here pay here" rip off dealer. Father drives $4K 1996 Honda Civic 33 miles 1 way to work.
Mother buys herself $500+ digital camera. Daughters have a camera on their cell phone. Father has $69 refurbished digital camera, works great.
Mother spends $300/month on cell phones for her and the kids. Father spends less than $60/month for land line and a tracphone.
Mother kicks one boyfriend out and moves another one in less than a week later, not just once. Father has been married to 2nd wife for over 15 years now.
Mother pays $570/month to live in trailer park. Fathers house payment is less than $250/month including country house and 4-1/2 acres of land.
Mother needs more money, she asks everybody she knows for money. Father needs more money, he sells something or does extra work.
Bottom line, mother blows money mostly on herself, lives with the man of the week. Father has to work with tight budget and makes it work.
Unfortunately daughters now live with whoever their boyfriend is at the time. That's how the system works! The man is treated like he's at fault, facts don't matter.
RogerN