I don't know if there is an already established "standard"..but.....after having to trace the wires back a couple of times, I finally coded all of my leads as follows
RED = Rudder (Red/Rudder..simple to remember)
YELLOW = Elevator (YELL sounds similar to ELevator..simple to remember)
BLUE = Ailerons (Blue reminds me of the AIR or SKY ..somewhat simple to remember)
GREEN = Motor/power lead (Green means GO! )
regards, Rich