They make more than one type of Optima battery. They make a conventional starting battery like you need in a car. They also make a combination battery that is a marine starting and trolling battery. The problem is that they are NOT intended for use in a car. They are intended to start a typical outboard engine. They can tolerate being discharged more than a starting battery but not much more. Then you have the deep cycle type. They are intended to run something like a trolling motor, they will deliver current over a long time and take being discharged well. BUT they won't work long in a vehicle since the starter draws a LOT of current and that will warp the interior plates of the battery and short it out.
In your case you would be MUCH better off with a couple items. One a duel battery isolator and dual batteries. AND a battery saver unit which will shut off the current when the battery hits a set voltage level. That will protect the batteries.