Guess this is a state that doesn't require septic pumping before the closing at the escrow company. If the place is old, there may be more than one septic. Our old place in Redmond, OR. has three septic tanks. One really old that I filled with rocks, One middle aged that could have been still in use, and a newer one the previous owner put in. Here in the desert we find the septic because the grass dies early, or the snow melts there first.
If only a single tank, should be in a straight line from where the pipe is under the house. Should be able to see where the cleanout is. There is a cleanout, isn't there? If property has any slope to it, the tank will be downhill from the house. Any water well will be far away from the septic, or should be!
Was the house occupied recently? The grass should be longer/greener where the drain/leach field begins. That will give a second marker for the tank area.
Paul