Hi, I posted this a couple of years ago in this NG. It generated a heap of responses and discussion, but I don't believe any of them could be called a good explanation. I would really like to know the answer, so here goes again. Maybe there's someone out there that can advise.
THOUGHT EXPERIMENT.
You have an 'ideal' transformer on a toroidal topology, square section core. The core is quite wide, with the primary on one side, and the secondary, with an unknown load, on the other. You are given access to the centre of the core, ie. between the windings, and you are required to measure the power that is transferring from the primary to the secondary. You have no access to the windings or input/output connections, otherwise you can do whatever you want. How do you determine the power flow? Obviously the core flux is not the answer, it is mostly a function of primary voltage.