My great-grandparents left West Virginia and moved to Missouri. While in Missouri, my great grand mother died. My great grand father, then moved on to Oberlin, Missouri where he homesteaded. He arrived in Oberlin in time to help bury those killed in the last Indian massacre in Kansas. Not long afterwards he remarried to a woman who he had grown up with in West Virginia. She took the train to Buffalo Park , Kansas where my great grand father met her. To get to Buffalo Park, he had to drive a team of horses cross country about thirty miles as there were no roads. They were married in Buffalo Park before they returned to Oberlin, Kansas and lived in a sod house until they could build a frame house. He was elected to the Kansas Legislature twice.
Although my great grand mother never got to Kansas, I am confident that she could have if she had not died.
Dan