The dampen isn't as wet as you think. For large pieces of cherry or maple I wet a sponge, wring it out well and let it sit 15 minutes or so before using it to dampen the surface. The nice thing for wood joints is the foam out or even a little smeared on the wood will foam and can be pared off with a chisel, a very light sanding and it won't affect the finish (unlike excess PVA).