1) I've tried to be helpful here (
*all the way around*) but you seem to only be listening to the parts of what I (and others) have written that could potentially solve you problem but completely disregarding everything we are saying about how anyone can make a mistake.
2) If he drills where he says he is going to drill, it's an acceptable (although less than desirable for him) drill point. What he wants to do will destroy the lock, meaning HE will have to pay for the second one. If it were me, I'd pull the dial, remove the dial ring, drill a scope hole, and do something that I'm not going to explain on an open forum. That would spare the lock itself. To do this requires an certain type of very expensive scope. He may not have one. If he does what says he wants to do the lock is history, but the only damage to your safe would be the drilled hole - one 1/4" hole - that is easily repaired,. I do it all the time.
3) I forgot what three was but there was one.
4) Whether you want your safe drilled or not, it may just come down to that. Drilling it is not going to (for all practical purposes) detract from it's value or effectiveness. If you are that concerned, tell him you want it repaired with a hardened pin (Available from Lockmasters - He'll know the number) And as someone else said; the repair, if done with a hardened pin, will leave your safe in better condition than it was at the drill point.
5) Anger can be your worst enemy. Let it go. It won't help to solve anything. Ever heard the expression, "You can catch more flies with sugar than you can with vinegar"? Getting angry is not doing to help your situation, especially if the guy is already willing to make good on it.
6) Since you skipped over answering the question I specifically asked you I'll ask again... Have you ever screwed up? (I'll take it your answer would be "yes". Does that make you an idiot? No. Only human.)
7) Are you an idealist? I don't know - Let me look it up?
According to Webster's:
idealism: the system that make everything consist of ideas, and denies the existence of material bodies, or denies any grounds for believing in the reality but percipient minds idea.
I'd say yes You don't seem to care that people make mistakes. You just seem to want your "pound of flesh". (LET IT GO!)
He, OTOH, knows he is wrong. And he's willing to make up for it in a
*reasonable* way.
Dude it's an _old_ record safe, not a $5,000 TL30. Not even a $400 B-Rate. Its old and not worth a whole heck of a lot monetarily. Wadda ya want?
Let the guy open it and fix it, and pay him the originally agreed upon price and forget about it. Then pray that the next time you screw up, the victim of your error will let you off the hook.
What goes around comes around.
One final thought.... take two minutes... a _whole two minutes_, and put yourself in his shoes.