Friends,
I use Outlook Express, and am running Windows XP. Please----no sermons. I am not very bright where computers are concerned, and am pleased to be able to do as much as I can. I don't have the time nor the inclination to change.
OK-----the problem. My ISP upgraded equipment lately, which cost me connection speed. I used to connect routinely @ 49,333, but the normal connection is now just 26.4 kbps. While they offer a high speed connection, it isn't available to us because of our location. To add insult to injury, since the upgrade they made, when "friends" send large files, they often download time and again. They download, then I get an error message as if they haven't, and the process starts over again. It's done that for several repetitions on occasion, but it doesn't always do it. In order to stop the madness, I have to access my page on the ISP site and delete them to stop the downloads. The latest trick is when that happens, I go there and there is nothing to delete, yet when I go back to OE, it downloads what isn't there.
Yeah, I know------that makes no sense, but it's happening and driving me nuts, to say nothing of the amount of time it's taking up when I can least afford the loss.
What I'd like to do is set limits on file sizes that are accepted. I'm not sure I can do that, but if I can, I have not been successful in finding how it's accomplished. I'd like to set a limit of 1 mb on file size, with anything larger bounced back to the sender. Perhaps that will discourage those that send huge files. Asking politely hasn't yielded much in the way of cooperation------likely because the senders have high speed connections and don't remember how aggravating it is to receive a 4 mb file that you don't want.
Anything you can offer in the way of guidance would be appreciated.
Sorry Nick, I realize things like this drive you nuts.
Harold