Hello everybody, Finally I managed to get a Tamiya XF-1 bottle. It turned out that it's much more flat that the paints I used before.
So to sum up me "flatness research":
Pactra / ModeMaster / Humbrol flat black is about the same level of flatness (I'd call them satin)
Using Vallejo "Matte Medium" over those paints increases flatness a bit but the difference is hard to noitice.
Using Vallejo "Matte Varnish" over those paints increases flatness a little but more.
Tamiya Flat Black is MUCH more flat than any of those.
I can send a photo to anyone interested.
Tamiya paint has also a strong "autowither" feature - bad thing for some but actually I like it. I mean the surface when touched becomes less flat. If you use a piece of fabric to rub it - it will become similar to Pactra / ModeMaster / Humbrol (in flatness level). It makes very easy to make some parts less flat than other which looks really nice.
Maciek
ps. Mixing, as many suggested, should make a difference but I have not observed it! I briefly mixed Tamiya (1 minute of shaking) and it was really very flat, while 10-minute throuout mixing / shaking of others did not increase their flatness levels significantly.