And now for a word from one of the "screwups" on the other side....
I recently saw an n scale railroad car on eBay that I absolutely had to have. In my excitement, I immediately placed a bid. It was only after I had confirmed said bid that I scrolled down to see that the seller only uses PayPal.
Now I will never use PayPal (again)! It seems that the last time I did, such minor bits of information as my name, email address, and credit card number ended up in the wrong hands. I had to cancel that account; cancel my eBay account; and ultimately even had to change my email address.
With all of that in mind, when I won the item, I sent an immediate email to the seller outlining my problem and asking how he wished to resolve it. I have yet to hear from him, and I have yet to see the item relisted.
I had more than 100 successful purchases under my old account name, and another twenty or so under my new account name - and pointed that out to him.
Yes, I screwed up. But would it be so difficult for the seller to at least return my email, call me a screwup, and hate me for the rest of his days? Or could we simply arrive at some mutually acceptable method of resolving this issue?
Andy