MEK is actually a pretty safe chemical compared to many things. It has an acute oral toxicity of roughly 4000 mg/kg which makes it rougly as toxic as table salt. Or several thousand times less toxic then sodium cyanide which I consider modestly toxic.
Most of a persons uptake risk is inhalation from air. Many acute tests have shown that such exposure is almost riskless. You do not get into a risk area until the concentration is so high that the MEK - air mix is flamable. If it is this high your main danger is the fire you are potentially sitting in.
In industrial settings where MEK is used daily several worker studies have shown LOWER cancer rates then expected rather then excess cancers.
MSDS sheets are essentually worthless for estimating risk. The reason is MSDS sheets are written by lawyers and intended to comply with all Federal and State laws. That means that they must comply with laws such as those by one state that have defined play box sand as a carcinogen. That is correct, I am not kidding. We have one state where you must have a cancer warning on every single bag of play box sand you buy for your kids sand box.
The result is about the only thing you can trust on an MSDS is the actual numbers, if any are present. The words are by and large meaningless. If mushrooms in your grocery store had an MSDS warning atttached you would never eat another mushroom due to cancer risk. If the medicines your doctor gives you had a MSDS you would never consider taking another pill. Some medicines are proven carcinogens in the doses normally prescribed. Including medicines that are taken daily by over 12,000,000 US citizens.
Can MEK kill you? Of course it can. So can too much water or table salt. Just use a bit of common sense. Do not clean your hands with it. Wear gloves. Use it in a reasonably ventilated area and preferably wear a chemical solvent mask you can buy at any hardware store. Do not use it to dissolve the wax in your ears.