I don't like them either, but all the alternatives have their own disadvantages on a dashboard. The other high-current vehicle panel outlet and plug, for trailers, is even larger. Pigtail plugs like OBDII are fine as long as the driver doesn't have to connect them.
My solar system uses 2-pin trailer connectors outdoors, banana jacks at the wall plate, small Andersons in the charging wiring and large ones to the UPS, and a lighter socket for the voltmeter or the laptop DC supply. Each is a good choice for where it is.
-jsw